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I just think they've had trouble finding other like-minded women. I used to think I didn't get along well with anyone until I started exploring other areas outside of my tiny hometown and then I just realized that I wasn't looking hard enough. Of course I, a liberal, fairly geeky, and frankly kind of awkward southerner, am going to have a hard time finding friends in hot red South Carolina.
I think the same goes for these women who think they can't be friends with other women. They've either dismissed the possibility entirely and they're not even trying, or they've been looking for girlfriends in all the wrong places. I did when I was younger. I had trouble relating to other girls and to be honest still do. I don't like gossiping and being catty, and every friendship I've had with a girl has involved some level of both but friendships with males are simpler. Oh god, do you have any idea how many times I have said this lol!! I'm not a hoe, just can't stand talking about makeup and how they hate other chicks.
Technically I fall into this category. I think one is only bitchy if they actively avoid friendships with other women. I'm not sure if it's because I'm somewhat emotionally closed off or because I tend to meet more guys with similar interests.
There's never been any flirting and all of my guy friends view me as male. As someone who shamefully used to say that when I was younger, I can say this from personal experience. I was young, single, and enjoyed having fun. It's not like I slept with every guy I hung out with, but there was some major flirting going on with most of the guys. Now that I'm older and in a committed relationship I don't spend alone time with a guy that isn't my SO unless I'm helping them ring shop or something. I work in an office filled with woman and get along with them great.
I think that saying is just an excuse to hang out with guys. She wants to seem different to other girls. She's not necessarily a hoe, she just likes the attention from guys. That they arent petty and cant sit around gossiping or worrying about superficial things like celebrities or make up.
This is based on my opinion, based on my own experiences, that of female friends, and that of male friends who have hung around the "I'm not like those other girls " and "only like having guy friends" female friends. It's usually one of two things: It could be that they are threatened by other women and measure their self-worth by comparison or have run into too many bad female friends and are now scarred forever. Given that it's usually younger women who say they only get along with guys, I'm going to say that it's the former.
When it has to do with the former, it's usually because they are seeking external validation and this is an easy way to get it. When it's the latter, it's because people are shitty but they've met enough shitty people of one gender to associate women with negativity which is not exactly rational.
Guy friends can be a great thing but if you overwhelmingly prefer one over the other and fail to see that there are good and shitty friends of either genderit's usually because of some reason outside of pure friendship-building. I have "guy"-like hobbies like video games and have slight interests in fashion or makeup.
I grew up as a weird, action and anime-obsessed tomboy, however I think it's bullshit when people think that being a tomboy means you have to have mostly male friends. That's a great way to live inside a box and see yourself and everyone else as 2-dimensional. You may disagree with me but if I meet someone who can't maintain at least one friendship with another woman, that's a huge red flag. Then again, I strongly value building other women up and building a sense of camaraderie and communitywhich may be why I support female friendship and debunking the catty stereotype.
Female friendships don't have to be petty and it's just an unfortunate side effect of women being perceived as "bossy" or "bitchy". To me, she sounds fake. Like just says relatable things to get people to like her even though it doesn't actually fit her personality. As one who fits this stereotype its because men are more pragmatic, less prone to drama, and you can get a straight answer out of them. And for the record the only person I've ever slept with is my husband. She's down to earth - it's not in her DNA to shit stir.
My best friends have always been guys. I have a daughter now who is in 5th grade, there is so much girl drama. I tell her how stupid it is and to go play with the boys.
I was recently in my best guy friends wedding as a groomslady. Girls : We just don't relate to other girls, and our friendships with girls in the past haven't had real connections. Also guys : Girls are so mysterious, I can't figure them out. I don't understand them. Either shes a hoe or she genuinely tired of all the girl bullshit, both make her someone I want in my circle.
Edit: how do I get downvoted on my answer to what a subjective question means to me?
Tell me what it means to me then. My female friends and I talk about astronomy, politics, musical artists, upcoming movies, and many other topics. I see your username references The Avengers; we talk about that too. That's hardly nothing unless — gasp — men talk about nothing too?!
Found the internet! What does the "I just get along better with guys" girl stereotype mean to you? Posted by 5 years ago.
Sort by: best. I don't like gossiping and being catty, and every friendship I've had with a girl has involved some level of both but friendships with males are simpler Not a hoe either. Continue this thread. She a hoe. That's me. Girls : We just don't relate to other girls, and our friendships with girls in the past haven't had real connections Guys : She's a whore Also guys : Girls are so mysterious, I can't figure them out. No bullshit. They don't like to talk a lot about nothing Edit: how do I get downvoted on my answer to what a subjective question means to me? I would also say this is pretty accurate of me too.
It means she wants to ruin guys' good time with drama. More posts from the AskReddit community. Created Jan 25, Top posts january 13th Top posts of january, Top posts Back to Top.I get along with men better
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